Post by momto2teenagers on Jan 18, 2011 17:37:56 GMT -6
Hey ladies! So my story....I had 2 kids by the time I was 20. Both times I got pregnant I was on bc and it failed. Dh decided to go and have a V even though I begged him not to. He scheduled the appt and had it done without my consent because he thought that we couldn't afford any more and was afraid we would end up with a dozen kids. I was very bitter and angry with him for a very long time.
I have nagged him repeatedly for years begging him to have another child. It wasn't until this past spring that I was finally able to convince him to do something about it. We scheduled the VR with a local urologist here in SC. We ended up having to cancel that because of an abnormal mammogram that resulted in a breast biopsy. We didn't want to go through with it if it ended up that I had cancer. I ended up having some health issues at the same time and we ended up having to use the money that we had set aside for the VR for medical bills and living expenses since I was out of work.
I was so upset and cried on a daily basis because I didn't think that it would be able to happen. Amazingly enough we were able to get the money together 2 months later and the VR was on again. I told dh that it must have been meant to be. At the time of the VR the doctor saw clear fluid and heads and tails and was very optimistic. We haven't had an official SA but dh took a sample in for the doctor to scope and he didn't see anything. He said that we needed to give it more time, but that dh probably had a blockage and we should consider doing IVF. We are just praying that some sperm returns and that we are able to be blessed with another baby.
I have nagged him repeatedly for years begging him to have another child. It wasn't until this past spring that I was finally able to convince him to do something about it. We scheduled the VR with a local urologist here in SC. We ended up having to cancel that because of an abnormal mammogram that resulted in a breast biopsy. We didn't want to go through with it if it ended up that I had cancer. I ended up having some health issues at the same time and we ended up having to use the money that we had set aside for the VR for medical bills and living expenses since I was out of work.
I was so upset and cried on a daily basis because I didn't think that it would be able to happen. Amazingly enough we were able to get the money together 2 months later and the VR was on again. I told dh that it must have been meant to be. At the time of the VR the doctor saw clear fluid and heads and tails and was very optimistic. We haven't had an official SA but dh took a sample in for the doctor to scope and he didn't see anything. He said that we needed to give it more time, but that dh probably had a blockage and we should consider doing IVF. We are just praying that some sperm returns and that we are able to be blessed with another baby.