Post by ashrob on Jan 19, 2011 0:31:24 GMT -6
Hi Everyone,
My name is Ashley. I started dating my DH in 2005 and at the time I didn't think that I would be able to have children of my own due to cancer and all the treatment I went through. After 2 years and every fertility test known to man my doctors all told me that if I wanted my own kids I shouldn't have a problem. DH made sure I knew he had had a V from the time we went on our second date, but I had now fallen head over heels for him and decided oh well I will just have to love the 2 kids he already has. Over the next year this ripped me apart and the summer of 2008 I left him. After a few months he called me and asked if we could talk. He agreed to have a VR and do whatever it took for me to have my own kids. We got married in November of 2008. DH had the VR with Dr. Finnerty in Tacoma, WA in July of 2010. He had a VV on one side and a VE on the other. 6 months post op his SA was: total count 126 million, viscosity and morph. normal, motility 65% and forward prog. 3+. DH works out of town a lot so we have only been in the same city once in 6 months during all of my fertile days. I have decided that I will spend a week in a hotel from now until we get a BFP so that I don't miss any fertile days.
DH has 2 kids from previous marriages. A boy 15 that lives with us and a girl 9 that we have on weekends and during the summer. I have a nursing degree and a degree in health care administration. I don't use either one currently. I work from home for my mother's family business doing accounts receivable collections and customer service for two of the bigger accounts we have. I also make cakes for wedding, birthdays and other special events. I love to bake and if I could work full time doing that I probably would.
Well that was long and I probably missed a few things, so just ask if you want to know anything else
My name is Ashley. I started dating my DH in 2005 and at the time I didn't think that I would be able to have children of my own due to cancer and all the treatment I went through. After 2 years and every fertility test known to man my doctors all told me that if I wanted my own kids I shouldn't have a problem. DH made sure I knew he had had a V from the time we went on our second date, but I had now fallen head over heels for him and decided oh well I will just have to love the 2 kids he already has. Over the next year this ripped me apart and the summer of 2008 I left him. After a few months he called me and asked if we could talk. He agreed to have a VR and do whatever it took for me to have my own kids. We got married in November of 2008. DH had the VR with Dr. Finnerty in Tacoma, WA in July of 2010. He had a VV on one side and a VE on the other. 6 months post op his SA was: total count 126 million, viscosity and morph. normal, motility 65% and forward prog. 3+. DH works out of town a lot so we have only been in the same city once in 6 months during all of my fertile days. I have decided that I will spend a week in a hotel from now until we get a BFP so that I don't miss any fertile days.
DH has 2 kids from previous marriages. A boy 15 that lives with us and a girl 9 that we have on weekends and during the summer. I have a nursing degree and a degree in health care administration. I don't use either one currently. I work from home for my mother's family business doing accounts receivable collections and customer service for two of the bigger accounts we have. I also make cakes for wedding, birthdays and other special events. I love to bake and if I could work full time doing that I probably would.
Well that was long and I probably missed a few things, so just ask if you want to know anything else